I came across this recent article regarding NBA basketball star Richard Jefferson who got cold feet and decided to skip out on his wedding with ex-Nets dancer Kesha Nicole Nichols. You would think that one of the most important moments of your life you would really think it through and any possible red flags and hesitation would somehow have gone off. Think about it….the wedding was budgeted at $2 million! So through the countless meetings with the wedding planner, suit outfitting, location scouting, the gazillions of bride outfits he had to give opinions on, etc. you would think that he had a voice in his head “Do I really see myself with this person FOREVER.” Seriously?!, I have a drawn out mental self-debate with myself when I simply want to buy a pair of shoes…let alone WIFE someone, which sort of scares me…man I’m afraid of being THAT Uncle in the family that’s always single…anyhow, that’s for another blog entry. Yeah, the crazy part was no one knew that the whole thing was canceled. The guests ended up showing up thinking there was a wedding. Can you imagine explaining that to oh…..EVERYONE YOU HAVE EVER KNOWN. Imagine the set-back and humiliation of once-could’ve been Mrs. Jefferson. She was probably thinking like a week ago….”I JUST WON THE LOTTO…BITCHES” All of a sudden, BOOM…PSYCH! It’s reported that Richard Jefferson gave his Black Am Ex card to his groomsmen and told them to just show everyone a good time with it. Can you imagine going to a bar or club and it’s like ALRIGHT LET’S JUST POP BOTTLES on Rich’s dime. Man, imagine being that girl’s rebound lay! No pun intended! I bet if she was a LAKER girl this wouldn’t have happened. If she was a LA Laker girl she would had told Richard if you don’t marry me I am going to sue you for emotional duress and write a tell-all memoir of being a NBA dancer. YEZZIR!